Want to be seen

We wish to be seen, but can/do we dare to see ourselves through the eyes of the other? Are we truly open to what we may receive back from the outside world? Do we receive this unconditionally, in compassion and without judgement, so that it may continue to lead us back to the purest place, our inner core, in which we may feel carried? The place that is not emptiness, but full, as soon as we experience the complete coherence of inside and outside, above and below. In a restored balance, the sacred marriage, in which the male and female principles find each other in unity. A complementary interplay, an eternal dance of love... A true transformation, in which the inner child triumphs in the joy of life. Equilibrium. Goal: striving for a feeling of freedom within a rhythmic structure, through which it is possible to flow from balance. Coming together of yin and yang. Integration of both parts: male (father/outer world/structure) and female (mother/inner world/flow).

Moving according to the cosmic rhythm. A daily structure, complementary to the rhythm and the cosmic laws as divine/spiritual creation, will bring a feeling of freedom, peace and harmony. This is the father aspect , also the male and intellectual principle within each individual.

When the father (or father aspect) is rejected, there is a blockage when it comes to manifestation, shaping and structuring daily life.

The mother principle represents the inner world, emotion, home. When someone experiences a lot of emotional turmoil, does not feel at home (at ease) anywhere, or experiences overactive delusions and fantasies, this can indicate a negative experience with the mother; the feminine principle. This includes: the night, dreams and visions, the subconscious.

This imbalance moves on the spectrum of neurosis and psychosis. Negative manifestation of Neurosis: fixed patterns – wanting to keep control out of fear – having to frame everything. Psychosis: loss of reality (de-realization) – not being able to get a grip on anything – not being able to form logical sentences anymore – logic is switched off – the most normal things seem impossible and out of reach. This can also arise from an exaggerated neurosis (excessive pressure from the father principle - the outside world).

Of course, the two are closely related and balance from a higher understanding , through a transformative transcendence, is the desired goal.