Breaking patterns

Psychological processes and breaking old patterns are so deeply ingrained that you have no idea how or where to start.

You can't imagine how to transform the unwanted behavior. It can't be filled in, simply because the 'new' will come from a different place and so it is still unknown and unimaginable for the time being.

The only thing you know is that 'this' - as it is now - clearly has to be different. I use 'must' here because there is indeed an urgency.

What I can tell you about this is that it is allowed to unfold, as an organic consequence and therefore a natural result of disciplined effort. Spiritual dedication to achieving a purer state of being, in which there is no more room for disruptive and therefore unwanted behavior. Behavior that often arises from action-reaction and survival mechanisms.

For personal guidance in this process, you can contact me. I offer you an honest mirror, from an impartial place and also the techniques that are tailored to you. In other words, I meet you where you are now and I help you further in a guiding, but not forceful, manner. You will have to commit yourself and do the work yourself. Where I notice that the willingness is insufficient, I will, after a few attempts to inspire, withdraw.

We wish and let go, in compassion and grace. Reverently to that which seems to be reached outside of us. So shall we also receive, His grace and love of God.